Okay, well i dont think that people should jump all over you. You obviously know that something is wrong with it and you are here for help and that is what we should be doing. Personally, i only spank my daughter in extenuating circumstances. I really dont do it at all anymore because it really doesnt work, and it breaks my heart.
Once when I was18 and staying with a strict aunt for the summer she caught me smoking and decided I neede a good old fashioned bare bottom spanking as punishment. She grabbed my by the arm and dragged me upstairs to her bedroom, went to her dresser and got her hairbrush which was one of those long handled, black wooden ones. I began to shake as she threw me across her lap and before she could lower my shorts and panties I began to pee myself. She quickly pushed me off her lap sreaming at me to get to the bathroom and finish.